4 Things to Consider When Making a Life-Changing Decision
From someone who’ve just quit her job to move abroad.
I did it.
I quit my job.
I’m moving to London.
It was as easy as sending a resignation letter and booking a flight. I was as hard as free-falling in the sky, wondering if your parachute actually works.
Now that I’m in the middle of it, here is a few things that I keep in mind to reduce my anxiety and to make sure I don’t self-sabotage. I hope this will help you too whether you’re considering taking something that looks like a big decision for you.
1. It is ok to ask for help
I struggle a lot with the idea of ‘asking for help’. I remember my grandmother telling me that I shouldn’t ask for anything in life and that things I deserved would come to me. When I grew up, I thought that asking for help was a bad thing and that it meant I wasn’t tough enough.
’Strong people don’t ask for help’ I thought. I was wrong: the only people who don’t ask for help are the ones who are too afraid of being vulnerable.
We should all ask for help when we need it. Not everyone will answer positively but remember that no one has ever managed to climb the ladder of life without help (you came here…
